Is it ok that my boyfriend asked me to lose weight so we can have better sex?

I'm not fat at all, I'm actually underweight according to some body fat calculators. But my boyfriend likes really skinny girls (model type) and he asked me to lose more weight so we can have "better sex". I didn't got mad at him because I've asked him to change some things of his physical appearance too. But is it ok anyways? Or should I tell him that I don't wanna loose my time like that?

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1. I'd tell him if he wants a skeleton 2 go screw a skeleton;I don't see how screwing bones would b better>
2. as long as you are healthy . is all that matters , but if he truly cared, he wouldnt ask you to lose weight because he would love you for who you are
3. girl you better tell him to f**k off.. no guy or sex is worth something like that. if you're already underweight, do you really wanna risk being to the point where you weight could kill you??
4. well if the 2 of u r in the habbit of changing one another than i is probaly fine but if the 2 of you were normal people i would say f no it is not ok !!
5. Well, if you are healthy and don't need to lose weight, I don't think you should try. What if it affects your health adversely? Being underweight is as bad as being overweight although the problems are different in each case - but they are there. I don't think your boyfriend is right in asking you to lose weight just because he wants to have sex with a woman who looks like she's about to die. I don't think you should do that, though - you cannot compromise your health that way. What kind of things did you ask him to change about his appearence, anyway? I hope you didn't ask him to turn into Arnie-muscular type or model slim kind. Then I can understand why he's asked you such a thing. In any case, you should tell him that you don't want to lose weight because you care about your health.
6. tell him to get a bigger d*ick so you can have better sex
7. You know what screw him. I can see if you were over weight and he asked you to lose weight for health reason's then ok that's not a bad thing. But when he askes you to lose weight so you can have better sex, he must be a clown without the makeup. Are you that in love that you are willing to lose weight for this man? If your already underweight why would you even consider losing weight? that isnt healthy at all. If you happy with yourself dont ever let a man change who you are, definitely for some sex. What would happen if you told him to gain some weight so his you know what can get bigger so you can have better orgasims? How would he feel if you asked him that. I just dont understand some women with these men that are not happy with themselves so they are going to try and change someone else rather then themselves. Forget him, you might love him but he doesnt love you at all. When a real man loves a woman he will never try to change her and he will love you for who you are. Please take this advice because i hate to see you really underweight and damn near dying because your boyfriend wanted to have better sex. Good luck and drop him.
8. SO, your a FAT BEAST...? That means you have to look a certain way for him to actually want you.......Ugh, hes white huh? Look, I'm black and once you go black theres no turning back..Let my suggest: you come to my nest, my neck of the woods..There we shall rest... So, they say!
9. FIRST- Why don't you ask him to grow a bigger penis,or stay up for you way longer because that would make sex better for YOU! SECOND- if he likes model typ women then he needs to find another one instead of trying to put you in a position to please himself. THIRD- no it's not OK to ask you to do that. FOURTH-Are you satisfied with your sex life the way it is?
10. No it is not ok. It's a selfish request which only benefits him. He's eliminated the emotional component to sex and reduced you to just the physical.